[Ragnar Ragnasson]

Someone mentioned this above somewhere and I want to say it's definitely a situation for us, is I can feel reactions to tantalizing a spot just barely inside on top, not as far in as the g spot on top, it's another and definitely distinct small area that is very pleasurable to W gauging her physical reactions.
I've experimented during oral including fingers staying there a while during encounters, and it always builds to happy ending.

I'd imagine the shallow action may give good results in that area too.

 

[Rus47]

IMO, the technique(s) that worked yesterday won't necessarily work today or tomorrow. I am only operating from sample size of one, but trying to find a pattern that is repeatable was always a waste of time for us. So, every engagement was a different game, and the plays it takes to put points on the scoreboard change. Sometimes as different strategies are tried, the same play will have same results, but that is just accidental. Of course, we often end up trying a play that was great a year ago and it works. But one from last week won't.

My point (if there is one) is different strokes/angles/depths/positions for different times/days.

And I would bet is is very dependent on the people involved too. I guess humans are unique down to their fingerprints, and also the placement of other parts of their anatomy. Even those details will change with age, time of month, hormone levels. Infinite variety.

 

[ConanHub]

IMO, the technique(s) that worked yesterday won't necessarily work today or tomorrow. I am only operating from sample size of one, but trying to find a pattern that is repeatable was always a waste of time for us. So, every engagement was a different game, and the plays it takes to put points on the scoreboard change. Sometimes as different strategies are tried, the same play will have same results, but that is just accidental. Of course, we often end up trying a play that was great a year ago and it works. But one from last week won't.

My point (if there is one) is different strokes/angles/depths/positions for different times/days.

And I would bet is is very dependent on the people involved too. I guess humans are unique down to their fingerprints, and also the placement of other parts of their anatomy. Even those details will change with age, time of month, hormone levels. Infinite variety.

The shallow movements have actually been hitting her happy place for several months now and I've just been paying more attention.

I do know things change and I'm not discouraged if we don't get the same results all the time.

It's a really fun experiment so far though.🙂

 

[Ragnar Ragnasson]

I have to own up to the fact at least half the time I'm always trying to think up different things fun (for her, which is fun for me) to try on W.

 

[FloridaGuy1]

You guys "home projects" are far more interesting than mine!

But all joking aside, are your wives into trying new ways to reach O and do they seem to be into it even if they don't talk about it?

What about you women Do you tell your man what you want and how you like to try new things to reach O or is it more of a "let him figure it out"?

Maybe reaching orgasm is not important to all women? My wife says its not for her.

 

[ccpowerslave]

Maybe reaching orgasm is not important to all women? My wife says its not for her.

My wife used to say that a lot, then I got her a bullet vibrator and she doesn’t say that anymore really.

 

[FloridaGuy1]

My wife used to say that a lot, then I got her a bullet vibrator and she doesn’t say that anymore really.

Yeah mine likes the toys I have gotten her but isn't into using them all the time. I want her too as thats the only way she can O but most of the time she is take it or leave it. She says sometimes trying to reach an O is too much work. I really don't know what she means by that for as a guy, trying to reach an O is the fun part.

 

[maquiscat]

Something to consider adding to the mix. I know with my ladies, thrusting (relatively gently) between the lips, but not actually in the vaginal cavity, can result in a higher reaction. Maybe combining the two will help put her over that edge finally.

Also do a lot of finger exploration and make small changes in location. Hit spots repeatedly as her excitement grows. Spot A might not have as big a reaction as Spot B early on, but after a while A might be more reactive than B. Use what you lean from that to determine where and when to thrust with the penis during PIV.

So happy for you two that you are making progress.

 

[ccpowerslave]

+1 to the above. I let my wife control it and get much better results. Today she went through a few angles and such and then with the right one, bing bong she cranked it out in like 45 seconds.

 

[Laurentium]

The shallow movements have actually been hitting her happy place for several months now and I've just been paying more attention.

I know with my ladies, thrusting (relatively gently) between the lips, but not actually in the vaginal cavity, can result in a higher reaction.

Indeed, it gives the lie to the idea that a lengthy **** is always what's needed.

 

[Rus47]

+1 to the above. I let my wife control it and get much better results. Today she went through a few angles and such and then with the right one, bing bong she cranked it out in like 45 seconds.

That would be a world record for us lol. Wife control always worked best, but with age, aches, and pains she can't be in control long enough to make it happen. These days, PIV puts points on the scoreboard less often than it used to.

 

[Ragnar Ragnasson]

You guys "home projects" are far more interesting than mine!

But all joking aside, are your wives into trying new ways to reach O and do they seem to be into it even if they don't talk about it?

What about you women Do you tell your man what you want and how you like to try new things to reach O or is it more of a "let him figure it out"?

Maybe reaching orgasm is not important to all women? My wife says its not for her.

Our new experiment is her getting more and more at ease purposefully providing me with views showing off racy underwear shots, causally opening legs and letting me see what panties shes wearing for extended viewing pleasure.
All on her own. I started off a while back casually mentioning how much she makes me nuts when I can see what her panties are barely covering or not covering.

Now, she does it acting nonchalant, and now the ultra thin lacy crotch area is "accidentally" not covering everything.
I look unabashedly but casually when she's on the opposing couch doing this, and she's expanded this now, on her own!

I can't wait to see how far she wants to take it. I'm a bastion of cool yet encouraging comments. THAT'S difficult for me. But she likes it!

 

[happyhusband0005]

We have been a work in progress.

We've always had a pretty great sex life but she has never been able to have a PIVO with anyone.

I would just like to have the experience with her and we seem to be getting pretty close.

She isn't a communicator so I've had to figure a lot out on my own with trial, error and research.

My wife couldn't have PIV Os up until about two years ago, then all of a sudden the literal flood gates opened and she can now very easily. I chalk it up to a change in hormones as she is approaching peri-menopause (46). I know I am not doing anything special or vastly different. Doesn't matter the position or anything, 2-3 minutes of PIV and thar she blows and after the first its a climax every couple of minutes. She has been generally more horny also. The problem is after she has 5-6 she often needs a break for a few minutes. It's one of the worlds great mysteries.

One thing I will note is previous to this with specific G-spot stimulation she would feel like she needed to pee really bad, now she doesn't feel that urge to pee and orgasms instead.

 

[FloridaGuy1]

My wife couldn't have PIV Os up until about two years ago, then all of a sudden the literal flood gates opened and she can now very easily. I chalk it up to a change in hormones as she is approaching peri-menopause (46). I know I am not doing anything special or vastly different. Doesn't matter the position or anything, 2-3 minutes of PIV and thar she blows and after the first its a climax every couple of minutes. She has been generally more horny also. The problem is after she has 5-6 she often needs a break for a few minutes. It's one of the worlds great mysteries.

One thing I will note is previous to this with specific G-spot stimulation she would feel like she needed to pee really bad, now she doesn't feel that urge to pee and orgasms instead.

You are one lucky %#@% &#%#

After 5 - 6 she needs a break? I could accept that

Have fun!

 

[ConanHub]

You are one lucky %#@% &#%#

After 5 - 6 she needs a break? I could accept that

Have fun!

LoL! Every woman is a bit unique. Mrs. C has seizure level orgasms and has only ever been able to have 3.

 

[FloridaGuy1]

LoL! Every woman is a bit unique. Mrs. C has seizure level orgasms and has only ever been able to have 3.

I'd be happy with 3

 

[red oak]

My wife couldn't have PIV Os up until about two years ago, then all of a sudden the literal flood gates opened and she can now very easily.

One thing I will note is previous to this with specific G-spot stimulation she would feel like she needed to pee really bad, now she doesn't feel that urge to pee and orgasms instead.

How many years did it take for that trust to build?

I chalk it up to a change in hormones as she is approaching peri-menopause (46). I know I am not doing anything special or vastly different. Doesn't matter the position or anything, 2-3 minutes of PIV and thar she blows and after the first its a climax every couple of minutes.

Surrender makes it happen.

I’m found this thread interesting.
I’ve heard of women having difficulty O from PIV, but hardly experienced it.

 

[346745]

Sounds like you might be hitting her G-Spot.

Could be a gushing O.

Mmmmmm, gushing O's are FUN!

Once, with a previous GF. Shot across the bedroom,. Amazing.

 

[346745]

You guys "home projects" are far more interesting than mine!

But all joking aside, are your wives into trying new ways to reach O and do they seem to be into it even if they don't talk about it?

What about you women Do you tell your man what you want and how you like to try new things to reach O or is it more of a "let him figure it out"?

Maybe reaching orgasm is not important to all women? My wife says its not for her.

hear the same here. Frustrating as I'd like her to enjoy it more. but to each their own.

 

[346745]

LoL! Every woman is a bit unique. Mrs. C has seizure level orgasms and has only ever been able to have 3.

One and done here. I hear it's too sensitive after first. She knows her body