:iagree:I travel all the time for work and I haven't cheated. I think if you've got yourself a cheater they'll find a way to cheat. No doubt, it'd be easier to cheat a long way from home, if someone had the inclination to. If your guy is only being faithful because he might otherwise get caught, his faithfulness isn't worth very much.
I do...but that's just my paranoia probably. My husband travels a few times a year and has omitted things like women he has gone to dinner with (I mean, he went with more than one person, but I usually find out later that there was another attractive woman there too the same age as him and he just kind of left that info out...). He did mention one time that him and a group of people went to a bar after dinner and one of the guys was hitting on a prostitute that "worked" outside of the bar. I don't trust men any farther than I can see them, so I think the likelihood of them cheating is high.What are thoughts on people who are married and travel for business? Do you feel if they are gone a lot due to traveling they are more likely to cheat?
Same exact situation here. There were years where I traveled extensively. I intentionally avoided the hotel bars and rarely did anything besides spend the night reading and ordering in room service. I saw way too many pitiful, sad caricatures of guys hanging out at the bars just trying to hook up.I traveled for years about 60% of the time and I never cheated. My marriage was rocky at the time and the thought did cross my mind but I would have never done it. I'm way too ethical for that. I take my promises seriously.
:iagree:Same exact situation here. There were years where I traveled extensively. I intentionally avoided the hotel bars and rarely did anything besides spend the night reading and ordering in room service. I saw way too many pitiful, sad caricatures of guys hanging out at the bars just trying to hook up.
Is your husband one of 'those' guys? Doesn't sound like it if he's telling you about this. Those guys form a tight little club, called 'never tell the wives anything'...I can spot those cheesy-bar-guy types a mile away anyway, and I didn't marry a guy like that.I do...but that's just my paranoia probably. My husband travels a few times a year and has omitted things like women he has gone to dinner with (I mean, he went with more than one person, but I usually find out later that there was another attractive woman there too the same age as him and he just kind of left that info out...). He did mention one time that him and a group of people went to a bar after dinner and one of the guys was hitting on a prostitute that "worked" outside of the bar. I don't trust men any farther than I can see them, so I think the likelihood of them cheating is high.