So, a few questions.
What I have read about the long-term consequences of being married to someone with a pp fetish really scares me, husbands not being able to get off at all unless a car is somehow directly involved, etc. If there is anyone out there in this situation, how has it affected you?
My H is way into this and as much as I have tried to understand he really wont talk about it, he wont even tell me what he likes and doesn't like. We have made a few videos and he just says "do what feels natural" so I do and he STILL ends up looking at videos of other women driving... well, not just looking. It makes me feel like absolute rubbish, but then I did ask him what he wanted and would have been willing to give it to him... so it is his problem for not telling me, or mine for not getting it 'right'... or is is basically a porn/masturbation thing and "all guys do it" so I should just deal with it?
The other thing I find really strange is that he is not interested in my feet any other time, only in bed and in the car, eg no foot rubs, etc. I thought that was supposed to be one of the perks of having a 'foot man'?
I don't exactly know if I am asking for hints or tips and I am a little tired of reading forums where people ask a question like this and all they get in response is 'just go for it, you'll love it, he'll love it' and so on. I can't wear a strappy pear of heels and turn him on, make him ready for later, build the anticipation... he'll just go find a video and 'take care' of himself. Or even if I send him a video of myself, does he wait to get home to 'thank' me for it? No! Yes, we are talking about all these things, and yes he is trying to find a balance (e.g not when I am around and available!)
Before I found this out about H I had NEVER thought of my feet as in any way sexy or sexual, so that in itself is a lot to get used to... just a little lost and wondering if there's anyone else out there who has been/is in this type of thing?
What I have read about the long-term consequences of being married to someone with a pp fetish really scares me, husbands not being able to get off at all unless a car is somehow directly involved, etc. If there is anyone out there in this situation, how has it affected you?
My H is way into this and as much as I have tried to understand he really wont talk about it, he wont even tell me what he likes and doesn't like. We have made a few videos and he just says "do what feels natural" so I do and he STILL ends up looking at videos of other women driving... well, not just looking. It makes me feel like absolute rubbish, but then I did ask him what he wanted and would have been willing to give it to him... so it is his problem for not telling me, or mine for not getting it 'right'... or is is basically a porn/masturbation thing and "all guys do it" so I should just deal with it?
The other thing I find really strange is that he is not interested in my feet any other time, only in bed and in the car, eg no foot rubs, etc. I thought that was supposed to be one of the perks of having a 'foot man'?
I don't exactly know if I am asking for hints or tips and I am a little tired of reading forums where people ask a question like this and all they get in response is 'just go for it, you'll love it, he'll love it' and so on. I can't wear a strappy pear of heels and turn him on, make him ready for later, build the anticipation... he'll just go find a video and 'take care' of himself. Or even if I send him a video of myself, does he wait to get home to 'thank' me for it? No! Yes, we are talking about all these things, and yes he is trying to find a balance (e.g not when I am around and available!)
Before I found this out about H I had NEVER thought of my feet as in any way sexy or sexual, so that in itself is a lot to get used to... just a little lost and wondering if there's anyone else out there who has been/is in this type of thing?