My husbands parents have always never liked me but they will never come out and say it, however confronted my father in-law about his behavior he told me what he thought. He said he believe i'm cold uncaring, and selfish. He went on to say that he didn't understand why his son wants to be with me and finished it off by saying he feels resentment when ever we're all together. That was roughly four months ago. Two months ago we moved to a new state and city for a fresh start. My in laws are in town for the weekend I haven't spoken to them since that "talk". I can still see the expression on his face and hear every word. My in-laws and husband seem to have forgotten but I will never forget. Before that talk I never thought they hated me I just thought we had nothing in common. I mean I'm a twelve something and they're in they mid 60s. I was such a fool to not see the signs. I mean in three years I have never been invited to family lunch or holidays. They never talk to me directly they always to to me through him. Hearing that stuff hurt but it opened my eyes to their true feels. Today they seemed surprised, but indifferent that I didn't want to go out to dinner with them. I can't see myself acting like a family knowing how they really feel. However I don't want my husband to feel like he's in the middle. What should I do?