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Need some help here and feel very stuck:
My fiance and I have been engaged since Feb and have been together for 4 years. I was away for year #3 where she moved to the same city where my family is, for school. I returned 1 year ago to that city and since then have been having major issues. Things happened while i was gone for year 3 where there were multiple misunderstandings between my mom and my fiance that have led to major issues in their relationship. My mom/dad now feel that my fiance is trying to take me away from them and my fiance has been disrespectful to them also. We broke up last dec because of all of this but I wasnt happy as I was simply just taking the easy way out by ending my relationship when I really love her. We got back together(after 3 weeks) with her saying that she would try a lot harder to rekindle the relationship with my family(which hasn't happened) and we got engaged in Feb and plan to get married once she is done school in 2014.
I need help because I feel like i am being pulled in 2 directions, one from my parents who have some justification for feeling what they feel and one from my fiance who also has some justfication.I feel like ending the relationship would be very difficult but i wouldnt have to deal with this anymore but I would probably regret it forever.
Please give me some advice on how to create a harmonious relationship between the 2 parties. I feel exhausted and drained and dont know what to do?
My fiance and I have been engaged since Feb and have been together for 4 years. I was away for year #3 where she moved to the same city where my family is, for school. I returned 1 year ago to that city and since then have been having major issues. Things happened while i was gone for year 3 where there were multiple misunderstandings between my mom and my fiance that have led to major issues in their relationship. My mom/dad now feel that my fiance is trying to take me away from them and my fiance has been disrespectful to them also. We broke up last dec because of all of this but I wasnt happy as I was simply just taking the easy way out by ending my relationship when I really love her. We got back together(after 3 weeks) with her saying that she would try a lot harder to rekindle the relationship with my family(which hasn't happened) and we got engaged in Feb and plan to get married once she is done school in 2014.
I need help because I feel like i am being pulled in 2 directions, one from my parents who have some justification for feeling what they feel and one from my fiance who also has some justfication.I feel like ending the relationship would be very difficult but i wouldnt have to deal with this anymore but I would probably regret it forever.
Please give me some advice on how to create a harmonious relationship between the 2 parties. I feel exhausted and drained and dont know what to do?