hi, i really need some advice this is the promblem, my husband of 13years and i hardly have sex, i mean i go months then i beg him, and when we do i do all the work he doesnt even touch me or very little. then the other day i saw porn sites on the comptuer and he said the computer was playing up and they were pop up sites. he did google those sites though to see if there was a way to stop the pop ups. and then we were having a heart to heart and he said he masturbated every 2 weeks and when i said but he cant make love to me for months he replied he doesnt keep track it could be months before he masturbates. he has never given me any reason not to belive him before he is great in every other way am i over reacting? or is the truth staring me in the face. he makes me feel awful for wanting sex he acts like im a sex crazed lunatic? help need advice???