I have been divorced three years....separated five....things were had a low point in our marriage, but had no clue, my X was cheating on me, with a woman he knew years before me...and he did not like her and said she was nuts, stalked him, etc., so he moved to another state....and we met, dated got married and had a son....that was 23 years ago....now add 5....we have been together 28 years.....with a 26 year old son.....my problem is, he has never left me alone, although living with this psycho woman now....she contacted him, he showed interested...she picked up and moved states away, and rented an apartment beneath him, two weeks after we split.....when he dated her years ago, and found that he had left the state, she found where he lived, broke in to his apartment, and destroying all he owned, except the clothes on his back....and he really did not ever want to hear her name again....now look at the picture.....she moved here....then lost her job, totaled her car, and he felt sorry for her, and let her move in with him, because she had a kid.....NOW....this woman follows ME, calls, emails...and yes I have 23 police reports on her stunts.....but restraining orders are truly a thing of the past...so I just let it go....she has even been to my house, when he was here, my son has told her to leave us alone....she hears nothing....My X and I have kept seeing each other, and realized that we do have feelings, but he, for some stupid reason won't pack up and leave....I will say he is a passive man...but has finally told me he loves me, and always will....but just has to find the right time, and have some money before he leaves....and I am dumb enough to hang in there....I just don't get why he won't go away....I ask him to, but he just will not stay gone .... tell me just how crazy I am .... please....
