My husband really enjoys oral sex. The problem is I'm.... not good at it. And I don't really enjoy it. I do however enjoy pleasing him so if it is something he wants I am totally willing to do it. However, due to several issues I have asked him to be patient with me and let me work up to his desired goal of oral sex to...completion. So far he'd been really good about it and tonight I decided to surprise him and tell him I was going to try to do it to completion for him and lo' and behold I did it!!! However as he was ....finishing he started moving erratically and forcing it deeper that I could comfortably deal with and I had to stop. ( Due to gag reflex it was either stop or vomit on him.... I figured stop was the better route to take.) He got upset and told me "we're never doing this again." I'm very disheartened and upset by this for a couple of reasons. One being I was kind of proud of myself that I was finally able to bring him to orgasm with oral because in the past I'd never been able to the second was I really want to be able to do this for him because I know it is a need he has and I want to fulfill it for him. Does anyone have advice as to how to discuss this with him and explain it to him without it turning into a fight or someone having hurt feelings? It really hurt me that he couldn't be happy that I'm TRYING!