My husband and I have already decided to get a divorce. We have not officially filed yet though, mainly due to time issues(He works 60+ hours a week and I watch our 2 kids, work, and in college). Over the years our cars, house, medical bills, and kids have used any extra money we ever had. Finally, about a year ago, we managed to save up for our first ever family vacation. We decided on a cruise that is coming up this November. At the time that we booked the cruise we were still trying to work things out and didn't want to give up on our marriage yet. But now we have decided to split and don't know what to do with the vacation. On one hand, this would be our first(and only) family vacation together and would be a dream come true travel-wise. On the other hand, we would have to try to stay together until November while knowing we weren't staying together in the long run. Also, the money we would get back from canceling the cruise was going to go towards helping me move out on my own, because I earn a lot less money than my husband and couldn't afford our house. The logical part of my brain says I can go on a cruise later in life by myself with the kids, and to use the money now to move out. Conversely, the emotional part of me says I want to have the memories of at least one family vacation all together. Even though if tensions continue to grow between my husband and I it could ruin the whole cruise anyway. I need some opinions, I can't make a decision about this.