I've gotten some great advice from a lot of you on here so far and for that I am grateful. My sex life has gotten more comfortable for me and I think what we need is a little more spice to up our frequency. My husband has gotten LD since about 5 years ago and I'm still HD. My question is how do I tell my husband about my fantasies and get him to open up about his. Of course we both talked while we were dating about a threesome and agreed that would just be something we would share and never do epspecially once we got married. He knows that I like being spanked but I don't think he understands how much I like it. I also love when he tells me what to do in the bedroom. I can't fully open up to him about what I want. We've become boring, it's still great but it needs a little spice.