Oh HELL NO! NO WAY! You need to get OUT of this, not take his rotten ass WITH you! Who cares what his motive is, which is all manipulation by the way... you better stand up for yourself ASAP.He said he's on board with moving WITH ME now...not him being on board with me moving.
LOL!! I love it. An unemployed, abusive, drunken POS - who needs his wife to support him because he's so lazy and aimless - being choosy about who he and his devil spawn daughter will SPONGE off of. That's rich! It really is.Well yes but when I told him I would not allow his daughter to live there full time he said ok no thanks....
Let me take a guess where this nonsense is going.He sounds like a scared puppy or heart broken. That makes me sad of course cause I never want to hurt anyone or see them down. I’m really leaving him screwed while he’s down at his worst.
LOL!! I love it. An unemployed, abusive, drunken POS - who needs his wife to support him because he's so lazy and aimless - being choosy about who he and his devil spawn daughter will SPONGE off of. That's rich! It really is.
I'm assuming he can afford to be choosy because there's a whole line of women outside the front door, beating each other with sticks and fighting to be first in line to take on this "prize."
I'm not sure if you're joking about the women? lol...Trying to make myself feel better, not worse lol...
I'm wondering if there is...there have always been women who want him...he's ridiculously handsome, charismatic, smart and funny...so yes, that's hard to think about...they're gonna get the "good twin"...he's a Gemini...and I'm just sad about that..
I don't think that's abnormal...it's been 12 years...that's the longest I've ever been and I know 12 years of bad but also 12 years of good...
Lean on your daughter for support. It sounds like she has a good head on her shoulders and wants to be there for you. I hope you do move out. Have her with you for the move.My daughter made me feel better about me feeling bad yesterday. She said, mom there really is no good time to leave. He had money to gamble before, buy drinks, etc. then he can figure it out now and/or he can go and stay with a friend. She's so wise at the tender age of 25 and I'm beyond blessed to have her in my life. I wish I had more of her.
Of course he's on board with moving. Of course he's willing to go to marriage counseling. Because that means he will have to get off his lazy ass and find a job and not have you pay his bills. But don't you find it odd that all of this is at the 11th hour? Where was he when you wanted him to do this throughout your marriage? When my relationship was on its last legs, my bf allegedly had to go to the hospital because he fell at work. I didn't go see him. Then he had some other alleged medical emergency. I couldn't have cared less. Do you see the correlation? Your H is pulling out all the stops to get you to stay with him.He is very on board with wanting to move now. Said he’s willing to go to marriage counseling.
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I felt so at peace and at home when I went to see it again yesterday. Like very excited.
But when I came home, saw him and everything I just felt so sad.