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Confused76 ~ If you can't live like that then why suffer through a marriage for nothing but saving face?

If you can hold on and think there is a chance he can change tell him, this is what I need from you. Tell him to stop planning for the future because he is quickly about to find out that he will not have one, and if saving money is so important that the two of you are to different to keep a marriage.

The pain from a divorce is very hard at first. It takes time to heal, maybe a year to fully get over things. Mostly it is getting over yourself. It sounds like the two of you are friends. I hope you can stay that way if for nothing else your child.

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so we went to the stupid counselor..................we tried to see a new one.........they odn't participate w/our insurance.........i believe i made up my mind adn want out but just hate to hurt the one person who i alwasy cared and loved.

Then part ways and take solace in the fact that you will not be killing him slowly in a loveless relationship.

I would rather have the fire of love or be free. Yes relationships have ups and downs but it shouldn't be that hard on the heart.

You are doing a good thing for yourself and in the end for him too.

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I think there is a difference between loving someone and being in love with that person. I do love my husband, however, I do not have the feeling of "fight" for him anymore. At one time I would have walked through the depths of hell for him, not anymore. There is no drive left in me. I don't wish ill of him, nevertheless, I am just very indifferent........make sense?
Very much so. Two years ago my ex wife needed a car and the wife and I decided to give her one of ours that was off the road. My wife and her get along. I still care she is well and she is one of my kid's mother. I would never go out with her or anything but I don't want to see her fall apart either. So what you said makes sense.

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