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Every state has different rules, grounds, etc when it comes to divorce. I live in NY. I am wondering if there is anyone here going through divorce in my state?
I've done my fair share of research and have also attended a divorce seminar which provided advice from a lawyer, judge, mediator, psychologist etc.
I would like to know how long it is taking you to get divorced?
Any advice, tips, etc. I have yet to file but would like to know what happens once you do. How fast/slow the court system moves things along, etc.
 
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Thank you. I am aware of some of the things mentioned such as not emailing, texting, posting things online, etc. I also believe that sometimes we know a person, that is, until you decide to divorce them, and he may come up with all sorts of underhanded things. I have a feeling he has already started slowly sneaking money out and putting it somewhere.
 
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Thanks, Robrobb. At the same time If I were to use a ground, it would be Adultery, which I've heard is very hard to prove. All I have are little things, such as a call log from his phone with an escort line's number on it, but its kind of old, as is a hotel receipt for that night. The more recent info I have is the phone call to a craigslist prostitute, and the 6k spent at the strip club on the same night, but I have no proof that he slept with anyone. For adultery, I would also need a witness other than myself. Its so hard to prove these things. I am going to try and consult with some lawyers out here, see what can be done. I don't want to waste money/time.
I am also considering removing 50% of the money from our accounts, before poop hits the fan, that's what many people, including the professionals at the seminar suggested.
People start to 'fight dirty' once they see divorce is coming.
 
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