So yesterday my H gets home from being away at work for two weeks. I have hope that maybe I won't have to ask for some lovin' tonight, but I certainly don't hold my breath. Of course as the evening progresses the "I'm tired" starts. I tell him he should see a doc since he's not that old (46) and shouldn't be going to bed at 9:00 at night. He can't believe I'm asking him this. Anyway, he goes to bed at 9:00 and I stayed up until midnight. To my surprise, he's awake when I come to bed. I get into bed with just my undies on. He rolls over and puts his arm around me for about 20 secs. Then rolls over and goes to sleep. I am at my wits end. I don't know what to do or how to approach him anymore other than starting an argument regarding our sexlessness. I've been crafting a letter for the past several weeks basically telling him that this really has to start changing because I'm dying inside. He's got 13 days left before he leaves for work again, and I refuse to beg him for sex. Does anyone got anything for me to try? I feel so desperate and desperate people do desperate things. I don't like feeling like this . Thanks for listening.