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You can find my other threads which explain my situation and the waffling I've been going through about ending my marriage of 7 years. I believe that MC has been helpful in our relationship but also has shown me that I still don't feel love for my wife and I still want to end it. I simply don't feel anything when I kiss her and am not really attracted to her (among other things). I'm turning 30 next month and think about all the "catching up" I have awaiting me...
I know this will be destructive to her but I can't be guilt-ed into giving it another try. I know we both will move on and eventually be at peace with it. We both have good jobs and have no kids and no debt besides the house and her student loans. I realize the time of year, and would like to know if I should be honest now and get it over with, or wait until the holidays have passed before telling her (again, but for real this time). I was leaning towards waiting simply because initiating a divorce when the holidays are right around the corner might be a big let down for both of us.
And go...
I know this will be destructive to her but I can't be guilt-ed into giving it another try. I know we both will move on and eventually be at peace with it. We both have good jobs and have no kids and no debt besides the house and her student loans. I realize the time of year, and would like to know if I should be honest now and get it over with, or wait until the holidays have passed before telling her (again, but for real this time). I was leaning towards waiting simply because initiating a divorce when the holidays are right around the corner might be a big let down for both of us.
And go...