[Andrea]

My husband lost my trust recently due to a similar situation to this. I was extremely upset with him, so upset that he stayed somewhere else for a few days til we smoothed things out. The thought of trusting him again was so far fetched. And although he said he meant no harm out of it, the thought of him lying to me and losing my trust did it in for me. Him lying to me and his actions severely damage our relationship. I wondered for days if i took him back, would our relationship ever be the same. So far it hasnt been, but i can tell it will get there eventually. There are days where I go squirrelly on him but he has given me reassurance and we get through it.

I chose to forgive him. But i wont lie, it hasnt been easy. I hated him for awhile. Its been something we both are working on, as we all do in relationships.