This is so weird to be writing, but my wife recently came across a "sent mail" in my out box where I replied to a personal ad. It wasn't anything racy, simply a married woman seeking someone to see movies with or get a cup of coffee-no sex.
I am writing because while my offense seems trivial in comparison to the others posted here, I am getting the feeling that the breach of trust is exactly the same.
Our history: Married 7 years, 2 young children. We have not had any huge problems besides what comes along with raising two young children. We bicker, we argue, etc.
Now my wife isn't talking to me. Understandable. But shouldn't I have actually met the woman to be in major trouble? There are guys out there that do a whole lot worse and are forgiven.
That's the other thing: there are some things my wife has never forgiven me for. (equally trivial) Things that happened before we were married that still come up in arguments. I am fearful that she will NEVER forgive me.
Thoughts?
I am writing because while my offense seems trivial in comparison to the others posted here, I am getting the feeling that the breach of trust is exactly the same.
Our history: Married 7 years, 2 young children. We have not had any huge problems besides what comes along with raising two young children. We bicker, we argue, etc.
Now my wife isn't talking to me. Understandable. But shouldn't I have actually met the woman to be in major trouble? There are guys out there that do a whole lot worse and are forgiven.
That's the other thing: there are some things my wife has never forgiven me for. (equally trivial) Things that happened before we were married that still come up in arguments. I am fearful that she will NEVER forgive me.
Thoughts?