Please, for the love of civilized humanity, PLEASE don’t say that this quote is acceptable to you and you are going to attempt to stay in a marriage where the guy has admitted cheating, in his own drunken words tells a guy in front of you how little he values you and shows you with his actions.He told me he has been cheating because he feels I am not meeting his needs. . Basically it started when I was pregnant with the second baby and was busy with moving twice, a pandemic, and building a new house. But I evidently wasn't cleaning the house, having sex, and working out in the gym enough for him during that time. I recognize that I probably wasn't but I was busy giving him children.
He said he wants to work things out and stop cheating.
This is one of the weakest BS excuses I’ve seen. He doesn’t even care enough about the thought of you leaving to come up with a decent line of ******** or attempt to gaslight you like any lowlife cheater who knows how good he really has it with his wife will attempt to do......
Please don’t disappoint yourself and dignify this garbage he’s told you with any response other than——“I think it’s time you’re a free man and can chase women with a clear conscience. I want you to be happy.”
Then, get a shark lawyer, hammer him in divorce so you can take care of your kids and treat him with the disrespect he has shown you for years.
Your husband is a serial cheater and in this case, there’s no chance of him changing. He likes cheating.