So my husband oftens refers to things as "his " instead of"ours" as of I don't even exist. For instance our kids or house. Sometimes with just him wording things as he does makes me think I am nothing special. We have been together for like 15 years and married for 10 and have 2 kids under the age of 9. I know he loves me but also wonder if he is only still with me because he hates the thought of change or being alone. Today he even made a public post about his parent not being able to go through surgery that I had no knowledge of him even suppose to be having let alone having to see it before hearing about it from him. When telling him that it was nice seeing it on there instead of hearing about all he had to say in a scarcastic way is that it came from him so I heard it from him. Am I just being that insecure or sensitive to how he says things?