My husband filed in July. I have been in denial and not accepting it. We have been married 8yrs and together 12 yrs. We have two kids 3.5 and 7. He says he wants a divorce cuz he will never be able to trust me again. I believe over time that time heals the pain. I am rebuliding the trust but he still says he wont be able to trust me 100%. He wont go to counseling. I think going to counseling will help him deal with not being able to trust me. He says the other issues within the marriage can be resolved but not this one. I cant afford a lawyer. He has borrowed money from his brother. I dont qualify for legal aid cuz they take his income cuz we are still inving in the same house. I feel in my heart that he may change his mind and not go thru with this. I have prayed to God and read the bible daily. When I have turned my issues to God in the past he has helped me out. I hope he can help with this one. I am a stay at home mom and if this goes thru I have no income no nothing. He claims he has weight the pros and cons of that.I dont believe that. If he knows that I wont have a income how can he do this to me if he loves me? If anyone has some advise or words of wisdom that would be great!