My husband and i have been married a little over 5 yrs. been together 8 yrs. we have 2 beautiful kids that we adore . he is the best father but a sucky husband. I feel like i have tried to make him happy but get nothing in return. He is only affectionate when he wants sex. he has a construction business and that is the ONLY thing he talks about or we talk about the kids. other than that we have nothing else to talk about. when i mention something about how my day went , he rarely follows through with a comment . I have a lot of resentment toward him for making the decision solely on his own about the purchase of a house that i absolutely hated from day 1. He always takes on the attitude that because he makes the money he can make any decision he wants. I want to make things work because i do love him and he is a wonderful father. The kids absolutely adore him. But i am tired of crying all day and i am afraid i will regret spending many years sad and unhappy. When i mention to him that i am unhappy he tells me i know where the door is. What cAn i do to salvage this. It wasn't always like this?