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I have been married for over 10 yrs. 2 kids. My sex life has been 1x every 3 or 6 months, it was okay, but now I feel that I need someone that makes me feel wanted. I have talked to my husband about it, and he gets upset everytime i brought it up. I feel OLD, UNDESIRABLE. I am in my late 30s, attractive, good shape (according to friends) and I do not want to spend the rest of my life living like this. I want sex not just for the pleasure, I want sex for the intimacy that it creates. I think that when you kiss, hug or have sex with your husband you translates all your feelings that you have for that person. I feel lonely and he knows that. I feel that he needs a wife not woman. The wife that cleans, cooks, help bringing money to pay bills, take care of the kids, help with his business.
What to do??? I don't want to wake up when I am 70 years old and ask myself why didn't you did anything about it. I am extremely frustrated. I go to sleep everynight in my own bed alone. What should do, I feel like cheating with someone that will make feel desirable, but I am to shy to meet anybody, and I don't think I will be able to go out with anybody else.
What to do??? I don't want to wake up when I am 70 years old and ask myself why didn't you did anything about it. I am extremely frustrated. I go to sleep everynight in my own bed alone. What should do, I feel like cheating with someone that will make feel desirable, but I am to shy to meet anybody, and I don't think I will be able to go out with anybody else.