Well, I get it if there is NO chance of pleasure or orgasm for the guy...but I've said before, sex for ME at least, is only partly about an orgasm. It's about sharing intimacy that I do NOT share with any other man.That's because you are a woman....
The reason that ED meds are a billion dollar industry, is because for men, it is kinda all about the PIV...And for the record, BTW, I've never been with a woman that didn't feel the same way...TBH, if I ever had any ED issues and meds couldn't cure it, then I would probably opt out of sex altogether...can't say that with 100% certainty, but I can say it would be like 99%...
Just the embarrassment and humiliation alone would be enough to retire and be happy I had all the years I did.
Mileage may vary, of course..
And in my experience with my STBX, PIV was the LAST thing he enjoyed doing - masturbation was his favorite thing.