I'm guessing you are having too many orgasms if there is such a thing.
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They made some good points and some of them matched up with what I am going through. Thanks.You could be suffering from Retarded Ejaculation. Here's a useful link on the subject: MensHealthOnly.com: Difficulty Ejaculating
During oral on you, she/you might want to try some anal play. If you're interested in it of course.Ask her to blow you after sex.
A good BJ is a sure fire way to get your load off.
Assuming of course she knows how to get the job done.
As a guy gets older it gets more common.Sure wish (???) I had this problem.
During oral on you, she/you might want to try some anal play. If you're interested in it of course.
Glad it helped. If relaxation or trying some new techniques doesn't help, you might want to chat with a sex therapist. I should imagine it's one of things where the more you worry about it, the worse it becomes.They made some good points and some of them matched up with what I am going through. Thanks.
It's odd because it only happens some of the times and there is no set pattern. There are instances when I feel that I can finish, but hold out for my wife to have another orgasm. That's when it gets worse for me to get back to that point.
Hey, I'm not in my 20's (or 30's, for that matter) any more, so I'm sure that this is something that just occurs as men age. But I'd like to work around it, if possible.
Yes, and also blood pressure medication, which I just read up on this issue and those two can be possible causes.Are you taking paxyl?
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Are you monitoring your estrogen levels? High estrogen can be a problem for this.And I'm on test replacement therapy and am horny as hell all of the time.
Exactly. It's a catch-22: you want to pease her and not cum too quickly but the first few minutes are usually the best. I know that I can finish but take my mind out of it for a bit and let it get back some. I have even stopped pumping because te slightest movement would have been it.I have found that when I try and please my wife more than myself, I intentionally delay ejaculating and I can't complete it later. In the first 5-10 minutes of sex, I can feel the urge building. If I ignore the urge and keep going to ensure she has 1 or more orgasms, then she starts to get looser down there. Kids and age have taken their toll on her ability to stay tight. So I have found that ignoring the urge kind of desensitizes me, and since she is looser, I get less friction. That combination causes me not to be able to finish also.