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I am newly separated < 3 weeks. A little about what led it it.... Over the last two years my wife has had several emotional and physical affairs. Allot of lying on her part and ups and downs in our marriage. In Sept I had a one time affair myself. 2 weeks ago during a time i though we were working on things and reconciling she tells me its over and she met somone. Since then allot of dirty stuff is going on. They are having sex, she thinks she is pregnant, He comes to our house when i'm at work and sees her. And She has introdused him to our kids, which I think is wayyy to soon.
I understand its deffinilty over. I really don't want to get back with her. Although I do think there is a very small part of me that believes in true love and marriage and all that stuff that would get back together, of course with very many changes and of cource marriage counceling.
Right now its just hard because despite everything she is doing a part of me still loves her and has fond memories of better times. But is seems like she has just moved right on.
For example I know this dude is coming over because all of a sudden I find all the pictures in the house of me and my wife taken down and thrown in a box. I tried just now to delete an album of pictures of me and my wife from facebook and i could'nt do it.
So whats I'm looking for is any advice on how to feel better about all this. and move on dispite the fact I'm still living at the house.
I understand its deffinilty over. I really don't want to get back with her. Although I do think there is a very small part of me that believes in true love and marriage and all that stuff that would get back together, of course with very many changes and of cource marriage counceling.
Right now its just hard because despite everything she is doing a part of me still loves her and has fond memories of better times. But is seems like she has just moved right on.
For example I know this dude is coming over because all of a sudden I find all the pictures in the house of me and my wife taken down and thrown in a box. I tried just now to delete an album of pictures of me and my wife from facebook and i could'nt do it.
So whats I'm looking for is any advice on how to feel better about all this. and move on dispite the fact I'm still living at the house.