Have you told him all this?How do I battle this if it is resentment? At this point I dont know what to do. My best friend KNOWS me. She said that I am too independent (womens studies major/feminist) and needed somebody who can handle that. My husband HAS to know where I am, always wants to come everywhere with me. I like having my own space, Going places alone. Maybe I dont need to be married at all. And maybe I do resent him because I am not living my dreams right now because I am married to him. He has no interest or experience with the things I am interested in. And I think I do resent him for it, like he is holding me back.
You married him primarily for financial security. That's a nice way of saying "gold digger".Honestly, I think it was because he was a safe choice. He was a great provider, stable job
That's not a reason to get married. Not even close.my parents loved him, I got along with him and his family
In other words, you know he's not the one who will make you happy. Even if you're the best for him, its not enough of a reason to stay together because despite the fact that you love him, this is about what you want, not what he wants.I love him and want the best for him but I dont know if I'm the one to make him happy.
You married him primarily for financial security. That's a nice way of saying "gold digger".
Not that there's anything wrong with your school of thought. You're selfish, you were looking for a sugar daddy, you were going along with what everyone else wanted, and now you're in a mess.