Biggest regret of my life. Marriage had some issues, but not things that I couldn't have not worked through. I cheated with an ex-GF who was having issues in her marriage. My wife caught us leaving a friends apartment and I said a lot of mean things to her at the scene. The affair was one time, and ended that day. It's been three months now, I'm back living in our home, but seems that things are getting worse. We have been in marriage counseling for a month now. My wife is still hurting and every time we fight she plays the trump card. I want things to move forward, but she seems to hate me more every day. Any suggestions?