What was she like to your children before you married her?
I'd say that she probably is just trying to help and get your kids more active... except that you say she does not even say hi to your kids. That's unacceptable as is the rest of her behavior.
How old are her kids and your kids? \
What are your interactions with her children like?
You have two reasonable choices here:
1) Get to a counselor so that she and you can learn how to properly step parent. If this does not work divorce her.
2) Just go right to divorce.
There is no way you should stay married to a woman who is rude and/or mean to your children.
I'd say that she probably is just trying to help and get your kids more active... except that you say she does not even say hi to your kids. That's unacceptable as is the rest of her behavior.
How old are her kids and your kids? \
What are your interactions with her children like?
You have two reasonable choices here:
1) Get to a counselor so that she and you can learn how to properly step parent. If this does not work divorce her.
2) Just go right to divorce.
There is no way you should stay married to a woman who is rude and/or mean to your children.