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Well, probably nuttin new as u know...
"nuttin Nude under the Sun."

But with all i see written here on TAM, i havent seen anything
re: marr'd couples filming (or snapping pics) themselves flirting,
acting out, hardcore porn of Themselves and using that to
help stimulate their "drives" somewhat when feeling a little too
limp or dry.

maybe i missed it already posted here over the yrs but hey,
whatta ya'll think? would alleviate some folks concerns over
other people/partners or insecurites.

i would love to see me and mine in action, but alas...

 

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The allure of porn for men is the fact that the women they are looking at are NOT their wives and girlfriends. The only thrill most people get from shooting themselves having sex is if they do it in order to post it to the many amateur porn sites on the web or the Usenet for others to look at.
 

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Mr B. I respectfully disagree.

(Darn, it even rhymes :D)
 

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Mr B. I respectfully disagree.

(Darn, it even rhymes :D)
With my first point or my second?

If it's the first I have to ask how did porn become a multibillion dollar business if guys were satisfied taking photos and videos of their wives and girlfriends?

If it's my second (and you are a married guy) all I have to say is....wait a few years.....lol
 

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I am not a guy :D And I am forced to plead the 5th on both counts for the risk of sounding **err** insensitive :D
 

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Mr B, I also disagree. I might be a strange guy, but I watch porn just for the stuff that happens in it. My girlfriend knows this. When I watch porn I just imagine me and her doing that stuff, as I am not really attracted to most of the models. Hell, we even sometimes get ideas from it :D

She on the other hand watches porn for stuff she is interested in (like lesbian and homosexual stuff).

And for the second part, I dunno, seemed interesting, but wouldn't need to upload it if it were me doing it.
 

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my h and i have done pictures since we moved in together, about 16 years ago. we moved on to digital camera, and video filming.

i guess he watches it when im not around.....
 

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Mr B, I also disagree. I might be a strange guy, but I watch porn just for the stuff that happens in it. My girlfriend knows this. When I watch porn I just imagine me and her doing that stuff, as I am not really attracted to most of the models. Hell, we even sometimes get ideas from it :D

She on the other hand watches porn for stuff she is interested in (like lesbian and homosexual stuff).

And for the second part, I dunno, seemed interesting, but wouldn't need to upload it if it were me doing it.
The operative word here is "girlfriend" let's talk after you've been married for ten years.
 

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Many wives are either too inhibited when they are younger (I was) and/or too embarrased about their bodies to be filmed by their partners , including pictures snapped , too worried who might get ahold of them (kids!), so husbands are left not being able to do this many times, even if they wanted too.

I personally believe God himself built it into men to desire viewing a little "variety"- this is why men are so "visual". And true, I agree with Draguna here, we can learn alot from some of those visual porn positions, some just think of what we can do with the spouse. This is honorable.

Men wanting to view some variety, I just don't take this as any threat at all (but used too), it is the same reason women have heart throbs & go Ga Ga over their favorite movie stars & musicians. It means little. This doesn't in any way mean ALL of these particlar men will cheat on their wives or are bound to be unfaithful, or even love their wives any less. My dear husband is why I believe these things to be so. It simply means they have a Healthy sex drive & they are "Men", inspired by visual beauty .

Women who have a healthy sex drive generally enjoy it too, it is all about hormones.
 

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The operative word here is "girlfriend" let's talk after you've been married for ten years.
Well, we've been together for almost 10 years. We do want to marry, but only after we land ourselves some good jobs. I'm still studying and she is struggling to find any that fit her degree. Either way, it' not a short fling :)
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Christmas 09 my present to my H was a scrapbook of pics. Lingerie, wigs, a lot of nude ones. I also typed out a lot of my fantasies & put them in it. Definitely the gift that keeps on giving:lol:

I also set our bedroom up one night like a studio. Pulled out a lot of lingerie, wigs, gloves, jewelry, etc. let him put together the combinations he liked, gave him a camera, and we had our own 'lingerie show'. That was an awesome time & he still talks about it.

He's filmed us masturbating together. Next we're going to film the sex.

Good times:smthumbup:
 

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Mr B, I also disagree. I might be a strange guy, but I watch porn just for the stuff that happens in it. My girlfriend knows this. When I watch porn I just imagine me and her doing that stuff, as I am not really attracted to most of the models. Hell, we even sometimes get ideas from it :D

She on the other hand watches porn for stuff she is interested in (like lesbian and homosexual stuff).

And for the second part, I dunno, seemed interesting, but wouldn't need to upload it if it were me doing it.
This may be TMI (but afterall it is TAM, what could be TMI??), but I like the homosexual stuff too and I don't know why...
 

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This can be a good idea. Depending on the people involved. I think, that not only do you get something AFTER the filming, but I think that the filming can be a good, fun process in itself. The problem here is, that some "people"...(i dont want to generalize) have self image issuses.

Take my wife for example. She is GORGEOUS. So beautiful, but she doesnt even like sex with the lights on >.> let alone filming. No matter how much I try >_<
 
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