Hi all, I’m a new member struggling with life. My wife of 4 years recently served me with divorce papers and totally blindsided me. We have had problems for years of her needing to hear the words “I love you” more often. I come from a family background where those words were never said so to me they don’t have weight. Also I have become overly critical of my wife and her weight even though her weight is fine. She has asked me numerous times to both say I love you more and not pester her about weight... sadly I never gave her what she asked bc I just thought they were small items and other positive things over shadowed that.. turns out I was wrong and now she wants to leave. I begged and she left the house and told me she needed space to think, I was able to get a counseling appointment scheduled for us which she attended today., but said she wasn’t sure about future appointments.. I am so lost and I love her and the thought of losing her kills me.. so I have any hope to save my marriage?