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Friend, you love who she was, she’s not there anymore, it’s a shell and some narcissistic POS has taken over.
This is the truth. ^
Even if she did come back she'll never be the wife you thought you had. The succubus she is now killed who you thought your wife was when she slept with the gym rat. You can bet on the fact that everything she has told you has been minimized and all the blame shifting is 100% tripe. She owns the cheating, all of it. You were in the same marriage and you didn't cheat.

Charge ahead with seeing a lawyer, filing, and splitting finances, who gives a rip what she thinks about it. She didn't ask you before she opened up your marriage. Take a firm, decisive stance now and you will gain back the 2 months worth of ground she made before you found out. She is no longer family, she's your nemesis. You need to recognize this or she will drag you through hell and take you to the cleaners. Get strong and stay strong.
 

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The worst thing you can do at this point time is talk or do nothing.

Many go through this. The ones who get strong and stay there always come out best no matter which way it goes.

You will find out later that your wife maybe a want but not a need.

Advice won't do you any good if you can't act.
 

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@olayinka1976 I hope you keep coming back. If nothing else this place will provide a an outlet for your anger, frustration, sadness, etc. Many people have benefited from an anonymous place to get their feelings out. You will not agree with all the advice given and that's ok. As with anything in life, you take what you need and leave the rest behind.

I know it sucks royally to be in your position. There are people here who can help. *hugs*
 
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