I have been with DH for nearly 16 years. We have 3 children. The bottom line is basically I feel we are just going round and round in circles and I don’t know when enough is enough. I do love him but I feel like the only time we are happy is when I put all my feeling aside and just ack like everything is great. When I’m feeling down about any number of issues we have going on he just dosnt want to know and turns into a grumpy, angry person I do not like. Right now I’m not happy with most aspects of our relationship. I have been here before many times and nothing really changes. I just put up and shut up and then it seems to be ok until I happen to mention something that is getting to me, then it all goes back this, us both being unhappy and hardly talking. The main problem at the moment is him working so many hours and giving us- his family nothing other than demands. I just don’t know how much longer I can take it being like this.