Wow, what a disgusting thing she did to you and the other family. I have no idea how you could have stayed with someone anyone who is capable of such cold blooded pre-planned cruelty. So she was annoyed because you apparently weren't paying her enough attention and deliberately chose to cheat with your best friend who was married and expecting a baby?? How could you possibly trust her again after that? Or even like her again??A woman with any decency or integrity or any sort of moral values at all does not do something so appalling.The sessions felt like it was either it's time to forgive and forget or move on, those are the two choices you have. We talked to the counselor together then one on one....I felt like after her session with him it was all on me. It basically boiled down to she wasn't in love with me anymore because I didn't show her attention and she wanted to hurt me as bad as she could so she picked the best friend. It was a double whammy, I was the best man in this guy's wedding only a year prior to this and him and his wife were expecting their first child 2 months after all this hit the fan.