Hi, I've been looking around on here on and off for 8 years now. I'm 39, married since 2010, 1 teenage son. Wife and I dated since 2002 before getting married. I was brought to this site after I found out my wife had been having a physical relationship with what I thought was my best friend. I knew of the emotional part before getting married to only find out about the physical part shortly after the marriage. I figured I'd finally join so I could possibly offer advice and also have a place to vent from time to time as this situation still bothers me.