Hi all, after 30 years of marriage my wife suddenly wants a divorce, this came out of nowhere. I'm barely hanging on, so depressed, confused, embarrassed, angry and very hurt. I guess it's my fault because my wife has always had a spending addiction and I have always bailed her out and moved on. I have some money in savings and we have a paid for home so my kids and I believe she just wants that chunk of cash from a divorce to feed her addiction. I know I'll probably be better off in the end but not too sure I'll make it there.