Hello everyone. First, I thought I wouldn't be here. I'm 44, live in western PA. I figured I'd be in the doghouse here and there after fights, but find myself separated right now. I have 3 kids from a previous marriage, a soon to be 4 year old with mom in Texas on a 2 month business trip. She wants no contact with me after a fight we had. I admit I played a huge role, but now she's in the mode where everything I ever done wrong in the relationship is coming out and being used as fuel for "divorce" talk. I asked her to give it the 2 months to wait and not make a hasty decision. We have a child together, and up until recently (I think household and other stresses just pushed her over her limit) she viewed my 3 kids as hers, she at least cared for them that way. That upset her, but she reluctantly agreed. I'm leaving her alone, just conducting business with her, and asking to speak to our son. The horrible thing is she's telling me I never cared for him, which isn't and has never been true.