Hey there, I’m a newly wed. One year in April. Never imagined my first year of marriage would bring me here. We argue so much. Recently I was told our marital problems are because I’m fat. Isn’t that romantic? Are you wondering if I’m fat? Cause I am. I’ve gained some poundage since marriage. Gained some prior as well. I’m a very insecure person (hence my screen name). I’ve been on a strict keto diet AND LOSING weight for about a month now. Not sure why he waited until I started taking control to tell me I’m fat. Should have been mentioned many pounds ago. In my opinion. I understand we have to be attracted to our spouse and gaining weight can certainly be an issue. But the matter in which it was said was absolutely devastating to me. So much arguing. So much resentment. Trying so hard to get back to who we were before we became this.