Hey y’all. I’m 27 and a mom to 3 young kids. I’m not really sure why I came here but hoping to get some advice and hear some unbiased opinions from some of you. I’ve been with my husband for 7 years(married 4). I’m about at my wits end in this marriage. He has simply given up, closed off, never present with the kids, when he’s home he’s either on his phone or sleeping. Seriously this man could easy sleep for days if I allow him to. I’ve tried talking to him (not nagging) about how I need to him to step up more and interact with the kids more. It goes through one ear and out the other. Lately I believe he’s having an affair. His dad passed away last year. I know he’s depressed but there are def some red flags. I doubt he’s doing anything physical but I do believe he’s found himself a work wife. I am uncomfortable with how close he is with his coworker. He has put on some weight and I know he’s insecure about it. I know that can cause a man to stray. I feel that I am attractive after 3 kids I’m 130 5’7 and workout regularly. His coworker is on the plus size but she is in the rather large side when it comes to cup size. Which lets be honest after nursing three babies I’m not as firm as I used to be. Hoping to get breast augmentation soon tho. Anyways I feel he views me as childcare provider/housekeeper. I feel like he doesn’t like me half the time and he’s so bored with me. I can ask him a question and seriously repeat myself a million times to get an answer everyday multiple times a day. He’s like in some other world and seems Miserable to be home. I give him sex whenever he wants it, house is always cleaned, never ask for help with the kids, let him relax. He doesn’t have any work to do around the house. I take out the trash everyday and I’m pretty handy with tools and can fix the basics. I feel as if he has taken me for granted and he may be up to something.