I don't want a divorce... If I was going to divorce him it should have been done a year ago not now... He's my husband and my kids father/step father. He has only cheated once, on me, is it impossible for him to change... His friends didn't support our relationship when we started dating. They thought HE could do better... that was a long time ago, and they have changed. But it's in the back of my head. One of his friends is probably the only reason I know about it. I don't know...It might be time to gain the advantage and blindside him with divorce. I doubt he'll change his ways and what his friends said about watching him is hilarious considering they are likely enablers who egg him on.