I have always felt like it is cheating if I were to do something I would not want my wife to find out about. I enjoy looking at beautiful women as well, but having an extensive collection is strange to me especially since you can easily find that stuff on the net.
He really isn't respecting your feelings if you have expressed your wishes to no avail. This is a tough one. It isn't anything you can't work through, but he should tone it back if it bothers you.
He really isn't respecting your feelings if you have expressed your wishes to no avail. This is a tough one. It isn't anything you can't work through, but he should tone it back if it bothers you.