We have been married almost 2 years and have had some difficult times. To lay out some context, I am 26 and she is 24. She is black and I am white. She lost her mom when she was 5 and her dad when she was 20, both to cancer. She has some serious trauma from these difficult situations. Anyways we now have had trouble with her getting along with my family. Admittedly I am the type to just sweep under the rug and hope things get better. However that isn’t happening. It started when my two sisters didn’t really acknowledge our engagement. It spiraled from there and now 3 years later she is at a point where she won’t talk to any of my family and is hesitant to let me FaceTime with our 6 month old daughter. I feel like some of her pain is truly from my family who have tried seeeping under the rug and pretending like everything is fine when it’s not. I also feel like she has pain from losing both parents and acclimating with my family as the only black person on top of being disrespected is an uphill battle. I have noticed she is making more comments about how white people do certain things and they are never good. I am also going to counseling to help figure this out and I want her to as well. I’m hoping anyone in an interracial relationship has any advice. Or really anyone at all!