My BF and I have been together for 4 years now and have 2 kids. We have a ... decent relationship. You know good days, bad days, a little of both sometimes. But here's the problem. We do have a lot of fights over things that could be worked out. But he never wants to talk. The Problems that could be squashed by having a simple conversation or discussion continue to go on because he doesn't want to talk about it. Which of course then starts something else because it still needs to be talked about. So last night I tried to talk to him about some important stuff and all I got was i don't want to talk about it. So today I asked him " do you even want to be in this relationship anymore". it should have a simple yes or no answer, but I got " i don't know". And the crazy part about it is I don't know myself. I love him, but it just seems there is more bad days than good lately, and I just can't handle the stress anymore. What to do???