Are you absolutely sure it was about having a baby, not her just being disappointed that you didn't cum?
It may have been both. But they go hand in hand.Are you absolutely sure it was about having a baby, not her just being disappointed that you didn't cum?
I ask because my wife and I have a very climax-centric sex life. 99% of the time we both cum, and sometimes several times. On a rare off one of us will just want to please the other one, and not finish. And yes, sometimes the party that did finish is disappointed because we both love to make the other cum.It may have been both. But they go hand in hand.
Sounds like us again Jaquen (minus the "several times") ~ that must be niceI ask because my wife and I have a very climax-centric sex life. 99% of the time we both cum, and sometimes several times. On a rare off one of us will just want to please the other one, and not finish. And yes, sometimes the party that did finish is disappointed because we both love to make the other cum.
Is there a chance your wife is just disappointed because she loves to know you finished?
That's good...She doesn't say demeaning things. She has made other comments in the past about being disappointed when I don't finish though. That is usually the focus of our sex, me finishing. And it always has to be in the V. Never anywhere else.
I don't know, but depending on my mood that would either kill my mojo or make me go all out 500 shades of black on her. Bed reparation required for sure. Maybe she wanted you to rough it up a bit?"why didn't you cum in me, are you such a pvssy that you're that scared?"
When I post I always post the nice version... Maybe I'm afraid of there being online evidence... lolI don't know, but depending on my mood that would either kill my mojo or make me go all out 500 shades of black on her. Bed reparation required for sure. Maybe she wanted you to rough it up a bit?
I am positive the root of it is the getting pregnant aspect. She is a communicator, but I don't want to bring up the whole pregnancy aspect of it, because that conversation is not going to go well. She still believes it is going to happen, I don't. (tests have been done, %'s are very very low for likelihood).That's good...
You need to get to the root of why, then, she is saying those things.
If it's because she is focused on your pleasure and feels that she failed, then it should be easy to solve.
If she's not the openly communicative type, then the burden may fall on you to uncover her feelings that lead her to say those things.