to start everything off, i love my husband and i love my son. i would do anything for them. but my relationship with my husband is becoming more difficult to handle. weve been married for 2 1/2 years and we now have a 6 month old son. a few things you should know about my marriage are we got married when i was 18 and he was 22. we only knew each other for 6 months before we got married. our whole relationship moved fast because of our financial and home situations. everything in our realtionship seems to be routine anymore. i have no social life which is understandable because im either working or watching our son. everyone i know who is my age is out partying or going to college or just doing what normal 20 years old do, but im home making breakfast and dinner, going to work, paying bills and taking care of my family. none of this i have an issue with i love my family but i just wish i had a little bit more. i wish i had some time to act my age and not as a middle aged woman. even the very few times i get to hang out with some friends i get the cold shoulder from my husband. he doesnt understand that i need to act my age because he got to when he was younger and doesnt understand how important it is to live a life before you make a life. and because of this we constantly "bicker" just tiny meaningless fights because we have nothing better to do. everything from a dish didnt get rinsed or i got off work 10 mins late. and when it comes to taking care of the baby i do most of it, even though i work 6 days a week and he only works 4. every night but one i bathe our son, feed him and put him to sleep as well as waking up in the middle of the night to take care of him. and if i think about asking for a little more help its to much or he just happened to do it the night before. hes a great father dont get me wrong but he hasnt adjusted to routines of being a parent like going to bed earlier because the baby wakes up early. or goes the easier routes for things that should be done a certain was like always giving the baby his binky instead of playing with him. i just need some advice how to get my husband to adjust to parenthood instead of wiggling thru it.