I need some advice ladies, My wife and I have a good marriage we go on dates, hold hands, take vacations, go for walks and can talk for hour's still. But when it comes to our phsical intimacy we have challenges. My wife isn't into foreplay, sex and touching, she's not into kissing more than a peck, doesnt like receiving oral sex (she will let me at times but is quiet and still and does it just for me) doesn't like being touched down there with hands, doesn't like kissing and rubbing. I love all that stuff. Sex is just put it in. Most of the time "its" not ready and then becomes very uncomfortable for her and me to start. During sex she is quiet an "takes it". I know I'm good in bed (based on life experience) and am endowed right. She's just not a sexual person she can go months without it and be fine. Weve Been married 12 years, 2 kids and for the record we share chores and kid responsibilities. Sex used to be regular based on me asking for it and she never says no but things are getting boring to me so I don't want to anymore and is now birthdays and holidays. Anty suggestions on how I can turn things around for the both of us?