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Hmmmm... I don't know my friend, I'm not feelin' it
I think you might be making a mountain out of a mole hill. I could be wrong, but I get the feeling you might be jumping the gun a little bit. I'm not sure why your wife is distancing herself from you because you didn't give us that information, but it may be due to the fact that you've brought in some old baggage into a new relationship.
Believe it or not my friend, not all women cheat, the stuff you described sounds pretty harmless to me, the pulling the hair back could have eaisly been a dress code issue. I'm not saying there is nothing going on, but with the little information you provided, I just don't see a smoking gun.
If you're that concerned about it, you might want to do the James Bond thing and put a VAR in her car and a key logger on her computer, but be careful and don't get busted again. Honestly? It seems like you could be making a big deal out of nothing, and it's probably because you've been hurt in the past. The problem is, if you keep crying wolf, without any proof, you could end up chasing a good woman away for good.
There are lots of faithful women in the world my friend, and your wife could very well be one of them. In my opinion you should probably just relax, take a deep breath and don't sweat the small stuff so much.
Good Luck
I think you might be making a mountain out of a mole hill. I could be wrong, but I get the feeling you might be jumping the gun a little bit. I'm not sure why your wife is distancing herself from you because you didn't give us that information, but it may be due to the fact that you've brought in some old baggage into a new relationship.
Believe it or not my friend, not all women cheat, the stuff you described sounds pretty harmless to me, the pulling the hair back could have eaisly been a dress code issue. I'm not saying there is nothing going on, but with the little information you provided, I just don't see a smoking gun.
If you're that concerned about it, you might want to do the James Bond thing and put a VAR in her car and a key logger on her computer, but be careful and don't get busted again. Honestly? It seems like you could be making a big deal out of nothing, and it's probably because you've been hurt in the past. The problem is, if you keep crying wolf, without any proof, you could end up chasing a good woman away for good.
There are lots of faithful women in the world my friend, and your wife could very well be one of them. In my opinion you should probably just relax, take a deep breath and don't sweat the small stuff so much.
Good Luck