My husband and I have always had issues in our relationship. I know we jumped into everything really fast and he has issues from his past marriage. He has never been there when I needed him, such as when I was pregnant he never went to one ultrasound and had to have my father come with me. Also when I was 6 month pregnant I went to belly dancing and over stretched and tore something and I was non stop puking so I finally had to yell at him to get off his video game, he got mad and I almost had to drive myself and the whole time we were there he said not one word to me. Those are just some of the things I've had to deal with. Well, I have caught him talking to other girls numerous times and have stayed because he said he would change. Well, here we are 5 years later and I finally told him after the 3 past weekends of horrible fighting that I was done with this and I could find someone who loves me for me and treats me with respect.. Well, now he wants to all of a sudden change and do counseling and take meds to help. I asked him why is now any different and he tells me its because he didn't care before and now he sees what I have been telling him is true... I just don't know if I feel the same way anymore and I just feel like I'm fed up and it's too late. I have people telling me to a trial separation might be a good idea and was wondering what your thoughts are on the issue and if you have any advice for this type of situation?