Okay, so I just learned that my husband was a victim of child sexual abuse by a man and a girl. I have wondered for a while if he may be attracted to men and have felt that he is not really attracted to me as a woman. I asked him if he is attracted to men and he says he is not sure. He says he loves me and wants me and the family, but is really confuses. He is in therapy and so am I. Has anyone else been in this situation? I want him to by happy and I want to be happy. We have three young children and I do not want to upset the family, At the same time I want to be married to someone who is attracted to me and vice versa. What are your thoughts? Is it the abuse or is he homosexual?