Hi @Pacman1234, I believe that your fiancé expects you to take leadership in the relationship (Yes, you become the traditional guy), many women, even many feminists will expect the man to be traditional while they don't!it Has been a while since we’ve gone on a trip together and she keeps on mentioning that we should go on an all inclusive vacation again. I have been kind of disregarding it because I kind of want her to just plan it and tell me “hey we’re going here so pack your bags”…kind of how I did it with the 3 other trips prior.
Here is my biggest advice for you: Do not do covert contracts!
From your post you seem to be doing this in your relationship!
Not a good sign at all!
Example: I bought her an expansive gift so I should expect her to do the same!
Example2: I organized and payed for 2 trips so I expect her to do the same!
Nope, doesn't work that way, be upfront and clear about your expectations!
Example: Babe, I booked us a nice trip for one week, btw the next trip is on you, smile and a kiss!
However, gifts should be from the heart with no expectations!
Read Dr. Glover's book (you will thank me years later): No More Mr. Nice Guy (No it's not about making you a jerk, far from it, read the reviews)
You can download the PDF for free, but I would buy the e-book/book simply because it's worth every cent to support the author who helped millions!