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slowly getting wiser said it really well.

close off any money she gets from you, you might need to pay all the bills and essentially submit a bill to her for her share. do not trust her with any of YOUR money. she has her own from the student loan, if that is not enough she can work. my wife did it.

as others have said, if she has time for garage sales all the time and the casino, she has time to work. period.

lay down the law, sell the crap she brought home from the garage sale. clean the house out of anything that you do not want. if you do overtime at work then put it in a separate account she cannot touch. sell some of her stuff to pay off the debt. if there are items in the house she can take and sell for cash to gamble put them in storage.

if there is a gambling issue she will do anything she wants to get cash. make sure she understands she is on the last leg with you.

what will she be doing to help pay off the rent she blew? will she be doing anything extra to help you with the engine rebuild? will she be buying parts or there to help hand you tools or get dirty? you will be getting skinned knuckles and filthy from it, she should be there to help out. maybe she should be cooking a nice supper for you when you get home, so you can get started on the engine work.

I have seen some women go to school, get their diploma. they get out of university/college and get preggos right away, they do nothing with their education and now they are busy having babies and raising them and their "career" falls down the drain because they have not been using it and keeping up to the updates in the field.

hopefully she wakes up and realizes what she has been doing and you two stay together and grow old with lots of grand babies around ,but if she does not then again, as others have stated you will be paying for all her crap for the rest of her life.

good luck
 
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